Source: https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-2-themes [Revision notes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes.md) › [GCSE](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse.md) › [English Lit](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature.md) › [AQA](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa.md) › [English Lit: AQA GCSE Poetry - Love & Relationships](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships.md) › Themes # Themes English Lit: AQA GCSE Poetry - Love & Relationships, topic 5.1.2 ## Incompatibility of the Lovers The poem _Neutral Tones_ is about the end of a relationship. Here are some techniques that Hardy uses to show the distance between and incompatibility of the lovers: ### Juxtaposition ![Juxtaposition](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/257dc521-191b-4b11-bab5-31d4c493d8ff/shutterstock_1011115900.jpg) - The narrator uses juxtaposition (putting things close together for effect) in phrases like 'alive enough to have strength to die' to create a sense of the incompatibility of the lovers. - The sun is 'white', implying it is cold. - His lover’s smile is a dead 'thing' and an 'ominous' sign. - This shows the disintegration of the relationship. ### Pronouns ![Pronouns](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/d877129c-c67a-4761-81d0-659f55e03035/shutterstock_619465739.jpg) - The collective pronoun 'we' is only used in the beginning of the poem to show how the lovers have come apart. - 'Us' and 'our' are also used but only to refer their love fading away even more. ## Lifelessness of Relationship _Neutral Tones_ is about the end of a relationship. Hardy uses a variety of methods to show the lack of vitality (life) in the relationship. ### Pathetic fallacy ![Pathetic fallacy](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/6fedacbe-fc4b-4ad4-ba42-182738e08e7a/shutterstock_315123593.jpg) - The poem uses pathetic fallacy to reflect the bleak lifelessness of the relationship. - In particular, setting the poem in winter reflects the freezing of the former lovers' feelings and allows Hardy to use a dull colour scheme. ### Repetition ![Repetition](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/97932c14-c9a3-414a-a6b3-f408d81ca587/shutterstock_540449401.jpg) - Hardy repeats the colour ‘gray’ throughout, to emphasise the lack of vitality in the landscape and their relationship. ## Bitterness of the Narrator Hardy's narrator is reflecting on the end of a relationship. Hardy creates a bitter sneering tone to show his dislike of his former lover. ### Alliteration ![Alliteration](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/54fec60d-9e17-4942-84d6-12358e9fd5fb/shutterstock_219456148.jpg) - Alliteration in ‘wrings with wrong’ helps to create a bitter, sneering tone and reflects the narrator's anger and frustration. ### Assonance ![Assonance](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2025-09/123b0af2-bf61-4303-ba67-b632e8cc6cf9/29411b38-2e60-4cce-b01a-1c94166107e6.png) - Assonance (repetition of similar sounds) in the line ‘keen lessons that love deceives’ adds to the bitter tone of the narrator. ## Test yourself on Themes - Which of these quotes from _Neutral Tones_ uses juxtaposition? - What pronoun is used at the beginning of the poem but not the end? - Which of these techniques does Hardy use to show the lifelessness of the relationship? - Which colour is repeated throughout the poem? - Which of these techniques help reflect the narrator's bitterness in _Neutral Tones_? [Practise this topic for free](https://app.senecalearning.com/classroom/course/562992d0-2b85-11e8-949b-0fcba71f2ced/section/692e6460-2c1a-11e8-b18d-d1082cf88b6d/session) - Previous topic: [5.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - Next topic: [5.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ## English Lit: AQA GCSE Poetry - Love & Relationships contents ### 1 When We Two Parted - Lord Byron (1788-1824) - 1.1 When We Two Parted Analysis - [1.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [1.1.2 Themes: Death & Loss](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-2-themes-death-and-loss.md) - [1.1.3 Themes: Time & Anger](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-3-themes-time-and-anger.md) - [1.1.4 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-4-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [1.1.5 End of Topic Test - When We Two Parted](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-5-end-of-topic-test-when-we-two-parted.md) ### 2 Love’s Philosophy - Percy Bysshe Shelley - 2.1 Love's Philosophy Analysis - [2.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [2.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-2-themes.md) - [2.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [2.1.4 End of Topic Test - Love's Philosophy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-4-end-of-topic-test-loves-philosophy.md) - [2.1.5 Exam-Style Questions - Love's Philosophy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-5-exam-style-questions-loves-philosophy.md) ### 3 Porphyria’s Lover - Robert Browning (1812-1889) - 3.1 Porphyria’s Lover Analysis - [3.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [3.1.2 Themes: Porphyria & Violence](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-2-themes-porphyria-and-violence.md) - [3.1.3 Themes: Sin & Pathetic Fallacy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-3-themes-sin-and-pathetic-fallacy.md) - [3.1.4 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-4-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [3.1.5 End of Topic Test - Porphyria's Lover](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-5-end-of-topic-test-porphyrias-lover.md) ### 4 Sonnet 29 - Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861) - 4.1 Sonnet 29 – ‘I think of thee!’ Analysis - [4.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [4.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-2-themes.md) - [4.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 5 Neutral Tones - Thomas Hardy (1840-1928) - 5.1 Neutral Tones Analysis - [5.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [5.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-2-themes.md) - [5.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [5.1.4 End of Topic Test - Sonnet 29 & Neutral Tones](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-4-end-of-topic-test-sonnet-29-and-neutral-tones.md) ### 6 Letters from Yorkshire - Maura Dooley (Born 1957) - 6.1 Letters from Yorkshire Analysis - [6.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-1-summary-and-structure.md) - [6.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-2-themes.md) - [6.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 7 The Farmer’s Bride - Charlotte Mew (1869-1928) - 7.1 The Farmer's Bride Analaysis - [7.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [7.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-2-themes.md) - [7.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [7.1.4 End of Topic Test - Dooley & Mew](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-4-end-of-topic-test-dooley-and-mew.md) - [7.1.5 Exam-Style Questions - The Farmer's Bride](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-5-exam-style-questions-the-farmers-bride.md) ### 8 Walking Away - Cecil Day Lewis (1904-1972) - 8.1 Walking Away Analysis - [8.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [8.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-2-themes.md) - [8.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 9 Eden Rock - Charles Causley (1917-2003) - 9.1 Eden Rock Analysis - [9.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [9.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-2-themes.md) - [9.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [9.1.4 End of Topic Test - Walking Away & Eden Rock](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-4-end-of-topic-test-walking-away-and-eden-rock.md) ### 10 Follower - Seamus Heaney (1939-2013) - 10.1 Follower Analysis - [10.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [10.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-2-themes.md) - [10.1.3 Quotes and Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-3-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 11 ‘Mother, Any Distance’ - Simon Armitage (Born 1963 - 11.1 'Mother, Any Distance' Analysis - [11.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [11.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-2-themes.md) - [11.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [11.1.4 End of Topic Test - Follower& Mother, Any Distance](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-4-end-of-topic-test-followerand-mother-any-distance.md) ### 12 Before You Were Mine - Carol Ann Duffy (Born 1955) - 12.1 Before You Were Mine Analysis - [12.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [12.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-2-themes.md) - [12.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 13 Winter Swans - Owen Sheers (Born 1974) - 13.1 Winter Swans Analysis - [13.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [13.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-2-themes.md) - [13.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [13.1.4 End of Topic Test - Duffy & Sheers](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-4-end-of-topic-test-duffy-and-sheers.md) ### 14 Singh Song! - Daljit Nagra (Born 1966) - 14.1 Singh Song! Analysis - [14.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [14.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-2-themes.md) - [14.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) ### 15 Climbing My Grandfather - Andrew Waterhouse - 15.1 Climbing My Grandfather Analysis - [15.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md) - [15.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-2-themes.md) - [15.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md) - [15.1.4 End of Topic Test - Nagra & Waterhouse](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-4-end-of-topic-test-nagra-and-waterhouse.md) ### 16 Grade 9 - Comparisons - 16.1 Grade 9 - Comparisons - [16.1.1 Grade 9 - Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/16-1-1-grade-9-comparisons.md) ### 17 Recap: Main Quotes - 17.1 Recap: Main Quotes - [17.1.1 When We Two Parted - Lord Byron (1788-1824)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-1-when-we-two-parted-lord-byron-1788-1824.md) - [17.1.2 Love’s Philosophy - Percy Bysshe Shelley](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-2-loves-philosophy-percy-bysshe-shelley.md) - [17.1.3 Porphyria’s Lover - Robert Browning (1812-1889)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-3-porphyrias-lover-robert-browning-1812-1889.md) - [17.1.4 Sonnet 29 - Elizabeth Barrett Browning (](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-4-sonnet-29-elizabeth-barrett-browning.md) - [17.1.5 Neutral Tones - Thomas Hardy (1840-1928)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-5-neutral-tones-thomas-hardy-1840-1928.md) - [17.1.6 Letters from Yorkshire - Maura Dooley (Born 1957)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-6-letters-from-yorkshire-maura-dooley-born-1957.md) - [17.1.7 The Farmer’s Bride - Charlotte Mew (1869-1928)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-7-the-farmers-bride-charlotte-mew-1869-1928.md) - [17.1.8 Walking Away - Cecil Day Lewis (1904-1972)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-8-walking-away-cecil-day-lewis-1904-1972.md) - [17.1.9 Eden Rock - Charles Causley (1917-2003)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-9-eden-rock-charles-causley-1917-2003.md) - [17.1.10 Follower - Seamus Heaney (1939-2013)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-10-follower-seamus-heaney-1939-2013.md) - [17.1.11 ‘Mother, Any Distance’ - Simon Armitage (Born1963)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-11-mother-any-distance-simon-armitage-born1963.md) - [17.1.12 Before You Were Mine - Carol Ann Duffy (Born 1955)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-12-before-you-were-mine-carol-ann-duffy-born-1955.md) - [17.1.13 Winter Swans - Owen Sheers (Born 1974)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-13-winter-swans-owen-sheers-born-1974.md) - [17.1.14 Singh Song! - Daljit Nagra (Born 1966)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-14-singh-song-daljit-nagra-born-1966.md) - [17.1.15 Climbing My Grandfather - Andrew Waterhouse](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-15-climbing-my-grandfather-andrew-waterhouse.md)