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# Key Quotes & Comparisons

English Lit: AQA GCSE Poetry - Love & Relationships, topic 12.1.3

## Key Quotes in _Before You Were Mine_

Here are some examples of key quotes in Carol Ann Duffy's _Before You Were Mine_:

### ‘That glamorous love lasts...'

![‘That glamorous love lasts...'](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/a6318367-a0fd-420d-a4f1-59bcb17bf0fd/shutterstock_204661345.jpg)

- **‘That glamorous love lasts / where you sparkle and waltz and laugh before you were mine’.**
 - This shows the glamour of her mother's life as imagined by the narrator.
 - This also shows the narrator's desire to possess even the memories of the past ('before you were mine').

### ‘The decade ahead...'

![‘The decade ahead...'](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/5891afed-1478-4881-a31a-a407a28aca8e/shutterstock_245260198.jpg)

- **‘The decade ahead of my loud, possessive yell was the best one eh?’ **
 - In this poem, the poet suggests that motherhood can be a burden, especially compared to the excitement of life before the 'loud, possessive yell' of a child takes over.

## Key Comparisons: _Before You Were Mine_

Here are some **suggestions** for poems you could compare _Before You Were Mine_ to. Remember, there are endless options!

### _Mother, Any Distance_/_Walking Away_

![_Mother, Any Distance_/_Walking Away_](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/84a53771-0c07-467d-a573-bf36bcaa99e0/shutterstock_592266893.jpg)

- Compare:
 - Distanced family relationships.
 - Looking to the past.

### _Eden Rock_

![_Eden Rock_](https://image-v2.cdn.app.senecalearning.com/2018-03/d0540f10-f679-4bd4-acb5-dcdbde849d2f/shutterstock_317290838.jpg)

- Compare:
 - Distorted presentation of the parents and the past. 
 - Both poems use an amalgamation (mix) of memories and imagined scenes.

## Test yourself on Key Quotes & Comparisons

- Which poem, other than _Before You Were Mine_, gives a distorted image of the past?

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## English Lit: AQA GCSE Poetry - Love & Relationships contents

### 1 When We Two Parted - Lord Byron (1788-1824)
- 1.1 When We Two Parted Analysis
  - [1.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [1.1.2 Themes: Death & Loss](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-2-themes-death-and-loss.md)
  - [1.1.3 Themes: Time & Anger](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-3-themes-time-and-anger.md)
  - [1.1.4 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-4-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [1.1.5 End of Topic Test - When We Two Parted](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/1-1-5-end-of-topic-test-when-we-two-parted.md)

### 2 Love’s Philosophy - Percy Bysshe Shelley
- 2.1 Love's Philosophy Analysis
  - [2.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [2.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-2-themes.md)
  - [2.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [2.1.4 End of Topic Test - Love's Philosophy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-4-end-of-topic-test-loves-philosophy.md)
  - [2.1.5 Exam-Style Questions - Love's Philosophy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/2-1-5-exam-style-questions-loves-philosophy.md)

### 3 Porphyria’s Lover - Robert Browning (1812-1889)
- 3.1 Porphyria’s Lover Analysis
  - [3.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [3.1.2 Themes: Porphyria & Violence](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-2-themes-porphyria-and-violence.md)
  - [3.1.3 Themes: Sin & Pathetic Fallacy](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-3-themes-sin-and-pathetic-fallacy.md)
  - [3.1.4 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-4-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [3.1.5 End of Topic Test - Porphyria's Lover](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/3-1-5-end-of-topic-test-porphyrias-lover.md)

### 4 Sonnet 29 - Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861)
- 4.1 Sonnet 29 – ‘I think of thee!’ Analysis
  - [4.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [4.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-2-themes.md)
  - [4.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/4-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 5 Neutral Tones - Thomas Hardy (1840-1928)
- 5.1 Neutral Tones Analysis
  - [5.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [5.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-2-themes.md)
  - [5.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [5.1.4 End of Topic Test - Sonnet 29 & Neutral Tones](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/5-1-4-end-of-topic-test-sonnet-29-and-neutral-tones.md)

### 6 Letters from Yorkshire - Maura Dooley (Born 1957)
- 6.1 Letters from Yorkshire Analysis
  - [6.1.1 Summary & Structure](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-1-summary-and-structure.md)
  - [6.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-2-themes.md)
  - [6.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/6-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 7 The Farmer’s Bride - Charlotte Mew (1869-1928)
- 7.1 The Farmer's Bride Analaysis
  - [7.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [7.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-2-themes.md)
  - [7.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [7.1.4 End of Topic Test - Dooley & Mew](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-4-end-of-topic-test-dooley-and-mew.md)
  - [7.1.5 Exam-Style Questions - The Farmer's Bride](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/7-1-5-exam-style-questions-the-farmers-bride.md)

### 8 Walking Away - Cecil Day Lewis (1904-1972)
- 8.1 Walking Away Analysis
  - [8.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [8.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-2-themes.md)
  - [8.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/8-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 9 Eden Rock - Charles Causley (1917-2003)
- 9.1 Eden Rock Analysis
  - [9.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [9.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-2-themes.md)
  - [9.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [9.1.4 End of Topic Test - Walking Away & Eden Rock](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/9-1-4-end-of-topic-test-walking-away-and-eden-rock.md)

### 10 Follower - Seamus Heaney (1939-2013)
- 10.1 Follower Analysis
  - [10.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [10.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-2-themes.md)
  - [10.1.3 Quotes and Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/10-1-3-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 11 ‘Mother, Any Distance’ - Simon Armitage (Born 1963
- 11.1 'Mother, Any Distance' Analysis
  - [11.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [11.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-2-themes.md)
  - [11.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [11.1.4 End of Topic Test - Follower& Mother, Any Distance](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/11-1-4-end-of-topic-test-followerand-mother-any-distance.md)

### 12 Before You Were Mine - Carol Ann Duffy (Born 1955)
- 12.1 Before You Were Mine Analysis
  - [12.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [12.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-2-themes.md)
  - [12.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/12-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 13 Winter Swans - Owen Sheers (Born 1974)
- 13.1 Winter Swans Analysis
  - [13.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [13.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-2-themes.md)
  - [13.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [13.1.4 End of Topic Test - Duffy & Sheers](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/13-1-4-end-of-topic-test-duffy-and-sheers.md)

### 14 Singh Song! - Daljit Nagra (Born 1966)
- 14.1 Singh Song! Analysis
  - [14.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [14.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-2-themes.md)
  - [14.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/14-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)

### 15 Climbing My Grandfather - Andrew Waterhouse
- 15.1 Climbing My Grandfather Analysis
  - [15.1.1 Summary, Structure & Form](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-1-summary-structure-and-form.md)
  - [15.1.2 Themes](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-2-themes.md)
  - [15.1.3 Key Quotes & Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-3-key-quotes-and-comparisons.md)
  - [15.1.4 End of Topic Test - Nagra & Waterhouse](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/15-1-4-end-of-topic-test-nagra-and-waterhouse.md)

### 16 Grade 9 - Comparisons
- 16.1 Grade 9 - Comparisons
  - [16.1.1 Grade 9 - Comparisons](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/16-1-1-grade-9-comparisons.md)

### 17 Recap: Main Quotes
- 17.1 Recap: Main Quotes
  - [17.1.1 When We Two Parted - Lord Byron (1788-1824)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-1-when-we-two-parted-lord-byron-1788-1824.md)
  - [17.1.2 Love’s Philosophy - Percy Bysshe Shelley](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-2-loves-philosophy-percy-bysshe-shelley.md)
  - [17.1.3 Porphyria’s Lover - Robert Browning (1812-1889)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-3-porphyrias-lover-robert-browning-1812-1889.md)
  - [17.1.4 Sonnet 29 - Elizabeth Barrett Browning (](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-4-sonnet-29-elizabeth-barrett-browning.md)
  - [17.1.5 Neutral Tones - Thomas Hardy (1840-1928)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-5-neutral-tones-thomas-hardy-1840-1928.md)
  - [17.1.6 Letters from Yorkshire - Maura Dooley (Born 1957)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-6-letters-from-yorkshire-maura-dooley-born-1957.md)
  - [17.1.7 The Farmer’s Bride - Charlotte Mew (1869-1928)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-7-the-farmers-bride-charlotte-mew-1869-1928.md)
  - [17.1.8 Walking Away - Cecil Day Lewis (1904-1972)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-8-walking-away-cecil-day-lewis-1904-1972.md)
  - [17.1.9 Eden Rock - Charles Causley (1917-2003)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-9-eden-rock-charles-causley-1917-2003.md)
  - [17.1.10 Follower - Seamus Heaney (1939-2013)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-10-follower-seamus-heaney-1939-2013.md)
  - [17.1.11 ‘Mother, Any Distance’ - Simon Armitage (Born1963)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-11-mother-any-distance-simon-armitage-born1963.md)
  - [17.1.12 Before You Were Mine - Carol Ann Duffy (Born 1955)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-12-before-you-were-mine-carol-ann-duffy-born-1955.md)
  - [17.1.13 Winter Swans - Owen Sheers (Born 1974)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-13-winter-swans-owen-sheers-born-1974.md)
  - [17.1.14 Singh Song! - Daljit Nagra (Born 1966)](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-14-singh-song-daljit-nagra-born-1966.md)
  - [17.1.15 Climbing My Grandfather - Andrew Waterhouse](https://senecalearning.com/en-gb/revision-notes/gcse/english-literature/aqa/poetry-love-and-relationships/17-1-15-climbing-my-grandfather-andrew-waterhouse.md)
